True leaders are trained, not born - that is what you need to remember.

Let's face it - there is no leadership gene. In fact, there is so much evidencepointing to leadership emerging from social factors and learning that therereally is no substance in the phrase, "Natural born leader."Although, it is catchy and a good phrase to use nevertheless :).

In all seriousness, though, leadership training happens throughout life. Somany studies have shown that males who develop earlier physically are rewardedwith more attention, and as a result develop more confidence and intelligence,as well as performance in their careers later in life. Your leadership traininghappens from the people around you who are positive influences (and negativetoo, if you learn how to turn those into opportunities to improve), as well asthe mentors and coaches in every day life like school teachers, sports coachesand peers.

True leadership training doesn't happen in a weekend seminar - it happens bybecoming aware of life and the many coaches that are around you everyday.People all around you have something to offer you - just be patient and listen.